<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21147733</id><updated>2010-09-04T19:30:18.725+01:00</updated><title type='text'>Family Lore</title><subtitle type='html'>Musings of an English Family Lawyer</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><link rel='next' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default?start-index=26&amp;max-results=25'/><author><name>John Bolch</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16676004014279763939</uri><email>john@familylore.co.uk</email></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>1567</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21147733.post-4034343097098636563</id><published>2010-09-03T08:38:00.004+01:00</published><updated>2010-09-03T09:02:27.908+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Celebrity Watch'/><title type='text'>CAC v AC - D/N today</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/TICqYL6gDdI/AAAAAAAADbo/ktBxa_tg2ro/s1600/Coles2.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float: left; margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; cursor: pointer; width: 245px; height: 170px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/TICqYL6gDdI/AAAAAAAADbo/ktBxa_tg2ro/s400/Coles2.jpg" alt="" title="Cleverly photoshopped image of Mr and Mrs Cole, suggesting marriage breakdown" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5512593276393229778" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Like all good news sources (see, for example, &lt;a href="http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/entertainment-arts-11173177"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt; and &lt;a href="http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/newstopics/celebritynews/7979005/Cheryl-and-Ashley-Cole-divorce-comes-to-court.html"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;), I am bound to report that the decree nisi in the case of &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;The Nation's Sweetheart v Cashley Cole&lt;/span&gt; is due to be pronounced in the Principal Registry this morning. Contrary to what is stated in &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;The Telegraph&lt;/span&gt;, this will not, of course, bring their acrimonious marriage to an end - we shall all have to wait for the decree absolute to do that.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I note that the decree is to be pronounced by District Judge Christopher Simmonds, who until recently was a solicitor practising in my local courts. I bet he can hardly contain his excitement...&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/21147733-4034343097098636563?l=www.familylore.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/feeds/4034343097098636563/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=21147733&amp;postID=4034343097098636563&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/4034343097098636563'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/4034343097098636563'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/2010/09/cac-v-ac-dn-today.html' title='CAC v AC - D/N today'/><author><name>John Bolch</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16676004014279763939</uri><email>john@familylore.co.uk</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='09091821135639082434'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/TICqYL6gDdI/AAAAAAAADbo/ktBxa_tg2ro/s72-c/Coles2.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21147733.post-4392611332951713515</id><published>2010-09-02T11:53:00.005+01:00</published><updated>2010-09-02T13:04:44.316+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Celebrity Watch'/><title type='text'>Shared custody, Montag and Pratt style</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/TH-HgWvg8UI/AAAAAAAADbg/diycTslq_-o/s1600/Celebrity-small.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float: left; margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 129px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/TH-HgWvg8UI/AAAAAAAADbg/diycTslq_-o/s400/Celebrity-small.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5512273458855211330" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;A couple of weeks back I &lt;a href="http://www.familylore.co.uk/2010/08/montag-and-pratt-reality-bites-at-least.html"&gt;faithfully reported&lt;/a&gt; that Heidi Montag and Spencer Pratt were sharing their puppies. The &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Daily Mail&lt;/span&gt; has &lt;a href="http://www.familylore.co.uk/2010/08/montag-and-pratt-reality-bites-at-least.html"&gt;revealed a little more detail&lt;/a&gt; about the arrangement. Apparently, they have four dogs, two of which stay with each 'parent' at any given time. Accordingly, at the end of each 'visit' a somewhat curious handover occurs, when one set of two dogs is exchanged for the other. Quite what effect this will have on the pooches I have no idea, but I suppose it is one way to resolve the issue.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There, I knew we could learn something from watching celebrities...&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/21147733-4392611332951713515?l=www.familylore.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/feeds/4392611332951713515/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=21147733&amp;postID=4392611332951713515&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/4392611332951713515'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/4392611332951713515'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/2010/09/shared-custody-montag-and-pratt-style.html' title='Shared custody, Montag and Pratt style'/><author><name>John Bolch</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16676004014279763939</uri><email>john@familylore.co.uk</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='09091821135639082434'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/TH-HgWvg8UI/AAAAAAAADbg/diycTslq_-o/s72-c/Celebrity-small.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21147733.post-1762958438061050260</id><published>2010-09-02T08:23:00.005+01:00</published><updated>2010-09-02T11:27:33.567+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Legal Aid'/><title type='text'>The legal aid contracts saga, continued...</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/TH971RBJvwI/AAAAAAAADbY/ZCepunPEKm0/s1600/LSCq.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 103px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/TH971RBJvwI/AAAAAAAADbY/ZCepunPEKm0/s400/LSCq.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5512260623956295426" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Further to &lt;a href="http://www.familylore.co.uk/2010/08/legal-aid-contracts-lsc-shift-goalposts.html"&gt;this post&lt;/a&gt;, Nearly Legal &lt;a href="http://nearlylegal.co.uk/blog/2010/09/lsc-goalposts-arent-moved-just-very-bendy/"&gt;now reports&lt;/a&gt; that the LSC has changed the answer to the question on its FAQ asking what a successful applicant should do if they are not able to deliver all the matter starts that they have been allocated.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The new answer begins: "&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;You will be required to deliver both the volume and breadth of services for which you have successfully tendered and been allocated matter starts in accordance with your bid and ranking&lt;/span&gt;", but goes on to say: "&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;However, as part of the verification process the LSC is giving successful applicants who are concerned that they will not be able to deliver the volume allocated to them an opportunity to review their allocation and request a reduction&lt;/span&gt;".&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As Nearly Legal states, the practical effect of this is still that the LSC can or will drop the required matter starts if the applicant doesn’t think they can do them, "&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;but now hedged behind a presumption that [they] will do the matter starts and a request/considered response process on the part of the LSC&lt;/span&gt;". He says: "&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;I can only assume, being a tad cynical, that this is an attempt to avoid a challenge of the kind hypothesised in my earlier post&lt;/span&gt;". Hmm...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What happens to the matter starts that are 'returned' remains a mystery. Nearly Legal favours the conclusion that: "&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;The LSC is quite simply terminally confused about what the hell it is doing&lt;/span&gt;." I wouldn't argue with that...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Meanwhile, in the &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Gazette&lt;/span&gt; today, Law Society President Linda Lee &lt;a href="http://www.lawgazette.co.uk/opinion/president039s-podium/why-we-had-issue-formal-proceedings-over-family-legal-tender"&gt;explains why the Society had to issue formal proceedings over the family legal tender&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/21147733-1762958438061050260?l=www.familylore.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/feeds/1762958438061050260/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=21147733&amp;postID=1762958438061050260&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/1762958438061050260'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/1762958438061050260'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/2010/09/legal-aid-contracts-saga-continued.html' title='The legal aid contracts saga, continued...'/><author><name>John Bolch</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16676004014279763939</uri><email>john@familylore.co.uk</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='09091821135639082434'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/TH971RBJvwI/AAAAAAAADbY/ZCepunPEKm0/s72-c/LSCq.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21147733.post-4656915896048707155</id><published>2010-09-01T09:18:00.004+01:00</published><updated>2010-09-01T19:19:34.661+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Post of the Month'/><title type='text'>August Post of the Month</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/TH4MjHp02MI/AAAAAAAADbI/m6djZz1cVWM/s1600/Post+of+the+Month+August+2010.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float: left; margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; cursor: pointer; width: 136px; height: 400px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/TH4MjHp02MI/AAAAAAAADbI/m6djZz1cVWM/s400/Post+of+the+Month+August+2010.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5511856791437498562" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;My Post of the Month for August is &lt;a href="http://pinktape.co.uk/2010/08/07/why-care/"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;WHY CARE?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; by Lucy Reed at &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Pink Tape&lt;/span&gt;. The post is a reaction to the proposition (raised in an oral evidence session for the Family Justice Review) "&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;that in our search [for] efficiency we need to seriously scrutinise whether or not there is a need for judicial sanction along the whole process we currently know as ‘care proceedings’&lt;/span&gt;" (see &lt;a href="http://pinktape.co.uk/2010/08/05/judge-dread-the-future/"&gt;this post&lt;/a&gt;).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Lucy states at the outset that the post 'is not the beautifully crafted discussion piece' that she had intended to write, but she seems to me to have done a pretty fine job. She argues strenuously in favour of retaining court scrutiny of a local authority's powers. After all, she states:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;It’s about proper limitation of the powers of the state – the most draconian of powers that the state has are to imprison us and to take away our children. If those powers are not routinely subject to the scrutiny of an independent court what is left?&lt;/span&gt;"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Quite.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/21147733-4656915896048707155?l=www.familylore.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/feeds/4656915896048707155/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=21147733&amp;postID=4656915896048707155&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/4656915896048707155'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/4656915896048707155'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/2010/09/august-post-of-month.html' title='August Post of the Month'/><author><name>John Bolch</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16676004014279763939</uri><email>john@familylore.co.uk</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='09091821135639082434'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/TH4MjHp02MI/AAAAAAAADbI/m6djZz1cVWM/s72-c/Post+of+the+Month+August+2010.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21147733.post-7658151057686270334</id><published>2010-08-31T09:40:00.002+01:00</published><updated>2010-08-31T09:57:41.415+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Finance/Property'/><title type='text'>A close shave</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.familylorefocus.com/images/Hemi-Cuda.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 500px; height: 250px;" src="http://www.familylorefocus.com/images/Hemi-Cuda.jpg" alt="" title="1970 Plymouth Hemi Cuda convertible. Apparently." border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;A salutary reminder from James Gross as to &lt;a href="http://mddivorcelawyers.com/legalcrier/marital-award/why-we-hire-experts-to-value-assets"&gt;why lawyers hire experts to value assets&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/21147733-7658151057686270334?l=www.familylore.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/feeds/7658151057686270334/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=21147733&amp;postID=7658151057686270334&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/7658151057686270334'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/7658151057686270334'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/2010/08/close-shave.html' title='A close shave'/><author><name>John Bolch</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16676004014279763939</uri><email>john@familylore.co.uk</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='09091821135639082434'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21147733.post-2147855264043635375</id><published>2010-08-31T09:32:00.001+01:00</published><updated>2010-08-31T09:35:21.018+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Celebrity Watch'/><title type='text'>Mel B marriage breakdown shock?</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/THy-USWzagI/AAAAAAAADbA/Kq8Q_L11Vyk/s1600/Celebrity-small.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float: right; margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 129px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/THy-USWzagI/AAAAAAAADbA/Kq8Q_L11Vyk/s400/Celebrity-small.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5511489299728787970" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;It seems that in less scrupulous areas of the media than &lt;i&gt;Family Lore&lt;/i&gt; there is increasingly &lt;a href="http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-1307562/Mel-B-steps-truly-scary-outfit-reports-marriage-split-grow-reality-debut-looms.html"&gt;frenzied speculation&lt;/a&gt; as to whether the marriage of someone called 'Mel B'is over (apparently, 'Mel B' was a member of a well-known all-ladies singing combo a few years back). Of course, &lt;i&gt;Family Lore&lt;/i&gt; would not descend to reporting such tasteless tittle-tattle...&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/21147733-2147855264043635375?l=www.familylore.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/feeds/2147855264043635375/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=21147733&amp;postID=2147855264043635375&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/2147855264043635375'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/2147855264043635375'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/2010/08/mel-b-marriage-breakdown-shock.html' title='Mel B marriage breakdown shock?'/><author><name>John Bolch</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16676004014279763939</uri><email>john@familylore.co.uk</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='09091821135639082434'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/THy-USWzagI/AAAAAAAADbA/Kq8Q_L11Vyk/s72-c/Celebrity-small.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21147733.post-5003958333034926593</id><published>2010-08-30T08:47:00.003+01:00</published><updated>2010-08-30T09:11:32.665+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Child Support'/><title type='text'>Supporting business</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/THtkQzt9XiI/AAAAAAAADa4/8YMfvbxNbs4/s1600/Cakes.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 171px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/THtkQzt9XiI/AAAAAAAADa4/8YMfvbxNbs4/s400/Cakes.JPG" alt="" title="Generic picture of some cakes" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5511108808941592098" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Not heard of &lt;a href="http://www.thisissouthdevon.co.uk/news/Woman-used-CSA-payments-prop-ailing-bakery-business/article-2582780-detail/article.html"&gt;this one&lt;/a&gt; before: a former partner in an ailing cake making business has admitted taking deductions from an employee's wages and using them to prop up the business, rather than passing them on to the Child Support Agency. Unsurprisingly: (1) the scam was noticed (although not for three years); and (2) the business has since closed.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/21147733-5003958333034926593?l=www.familylore.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/feeds/5003958333034926593/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=21147733&amp;postID=5003958333034926593&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/5003958333034926593'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/5003958333034926593'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/2010/08/supporting-business.html' title='Supporting business'/><author><name>John Bolch</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16676004014279763939</uri><email>john@familylore.co.uk</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='09091821135639082434'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/THtkQzt9XiI/AAAAAAAADa4/8YMfvbxNbs4/s72-c/Cakes.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21147733.post-4891973488991148068</id><published>2010-08-29T09:16:00.010+01:00</published><updated>2010-08-29T16:50:49.084+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Divorce'/><title type='text'>When lawyers fall out</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/THp_8yx5eKI/AAAAAAAADaw/u2--lQSZb5w/s1600/SAMS.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 188px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/THp_8yx5eKI/AAAAAAAADaw/u2--lQSZb5w/s400/SAMS.JPG" alt="" title="How it used to be: Mayevsky, Sheresky, Sloan and Aronson" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5510857776441161890" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Long-term readers of &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Family Lore&lt;/span&gt; will no doubt remember the '&lt;a href="http://www.familylore.co.uk/2008/04/dirty-linen.html"&gt;YouTube divorce&lt;/a&gt;' and the delightful Ms. Walsh-Smith (how could you forget her, much as you may wish to?). Who did her beleaguered husband turn to to contain the damage but one of New York's top divorce firms &lt;a href="http://www.samsllp.com/"&gt;Sheresky Aronson Mayefsky &amp;amp; Sloan, LLP&lt;/a&gt;? Well, now it seems that Messrs. Sheresky Aronson Mayefsky &amp;amp; Sloan are involved in a divorce of their own, &lt;a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2010/08/29/nyregion/29divorce.html"&gt;according to this report in &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;The New York Times&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Apparently, 82-year-old Mr. Sheresky left the firm 'in a huff' last month, claiming that his former partners had reneged on an agreement to take care of him financially 'in the twilight of his career'. Mr. Aronson and Mr. Mayefsky denied that such an agreement existed, and dissolved the partnership, forming a &lt;a href="http://www.amsllp.com/"&gt;new one&lt;/a&gt; with Pamela Sloan. Mr. Sheresky has now filed a $26 million lawsuit in the State Supreme Court in Manhattan, alleging breach of contract and fraud "stemming from the defendants collective and purposeful disloyalty and greed aimed at forcing Mr Sheresky from the law firm he founded and stripping him of the economic security and income to which he is entitled".&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It all used to be so different. With delicious irony, the NYT tells us of a video made in honour of Mr Sheresky's 80th birthday, in which his wife asks Mr Aronson what he thinks is the secret of the three men staying together for so long. "We love each other," Mr. Aronson replied, "it goes beyond our professional relationship — the way relatives would love each other." No doubt these nauseating words are now coming back to haunt Mr Aronson.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It seems that there is no love lost now, and this particular divorce promises to be every bit as messy as any that the firm has handled. Mr. Mayefsky and Mr. Aronson dismiss Mr Sheresky's claims "as so much fantasy".&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And what does Ms. Walsh-Smith think of all of this? She called the situation "poetic justice," and  added: "I wish them a horrible divorce, and I hope they shed as many tears as I have." Nice to see she's got over it...&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/21147733-4891973488991148068?l=www.familylore.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/feeds/4891973488991148068/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=21147733&amp;postID=4891973488991148068&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/4891973488991148068'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/4891973488991148068'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/2010/08/when-lawyers-fall-out.html' title='When lawyers fall out'/><author><name>John Bolch</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16676004014279763939</uri><email>john@familylore.co.uk</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='09091821135639082434'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/THp_8yx5eKI/AAAAAAAADaw/u2--lQSZb5w/s72-c/SAMS.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21147733.post-61212636663599163</id><published>2010-08-28T15:12:00.010+01:00</published><updated>2010-08-28T16:24:07.617+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Week in View'/><title type='text'>Plunging 'over the edge into an abyss of lunacy': The Week in View</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/THkaQQP8cdI/AAAAAAAADao/F8PkdYaoHew/s1600/Week-in-View2.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 160px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/THkaQQP8cdI/AAAAAAAADao/F8PkdYaoHew/s400/Week-in-View2.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5510464485606584786" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;I don't know whether this will be a regular feature, but I thought I would draw together some of the most important items that have appeared on &lt;a href="http://www.familylorefocus.com/"&gt;Family Lore &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Focus&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; each week, including (if appropriate) news stories, cases, articles and blog posts.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Without doubt the biggest news story of this week&lt;/span&gt; was the &lt;a href="http://www.lawgazette.co.uk/news/law-society-commences-court-action-over-tender-process"&gt;commencement by the Law Society of judicial review proceedings in respect of the Legal Services Commission's family tender&lt;/a&gt;. The Law Society is seeking a declaration that the family tender process and outcome are ‘unlawful’, and asking for a suspension of the new contracts. There is disappointment all round, with the Law Society saying that they are disappointed that the LSC refuses to acknowledge the detrimental effect that the tender will have on families, and the &lt;a href="http://www.familylawweek.co.uk/site.aspx?i=ed64752"&gt;LSC expressing disappointment&lt;/a&gt; that the Law Society has indicated that they are issuing proceedings, with the uncertainty that such proceedings will cause.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Meanwhile&lt;/span&gt;, &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Nearly Legal&lt;/span&gt; has pointed out a remarkable &lt;a href="http://nearlylegal.co.uk/blog/2010/08/of-contracts-shifting-goalposts-and-lawfulness/"&gt;shifting of the goalposts by the LSC&lt;/a&gt;, which he feels could be the basis for a challenge to the tender. I passed on his findings in &lt;a href="http://www.familylore.co.uk/2010/08/legal-aid-contracts-lsc-shift-goalposts.html"&gt;this post&lt;/a&gt;, and the position seems to be perfectly summed up by a commenter who has been adversely affected by the tender, and says: "&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;I have seen some mad things in my 30 years as a legal aid lawyer but we have now plunged over the edge into an abyss of lunacy&lt;/span&gt;". Quite.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Elsewhere&lt;/span&gt;, it has been a fairly typically quiet August week. On Monday the BBC &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Panorama&lt;/span&gt; programme &lt;a href="http://news.bbc.co.uk/panorama/hi/front_page/newsid_8928000/8928337.stm"&gt;reported on the child abuse 'nightmare' of Jake and Victoria Ward&lt;/a&gt;, a case that will be familiar to all family lawyers. Lucy Reed at &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Pink Tape&lt;/span&gt; expertly reviewed the programme in &lt;a href="http://pinktape.co.uk/2010/08/27/panorama/"&gt;this post&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Lastly&lt;/span&gt;, two stories that perhaps wouldn't have surfaced if there had been more 'real' news about (and hopefully won't surface again): a 'top professor' &lt;a href="http://www.communitycare.co.uk/Articles/2010/08/24/115157/sterilise-parents-who-abuse-children-top-professor-says.htm"&gt;arguing for irreversible sterilisation for parents who abuse their children&lt;/a&gt;, and a novelist &lt;a href="http://www.telegraph.co.uk/culture/books/booknews/7962125/Author-Amanda-Craig-calls-for-two-child-limit-for-the-poor.html"&gt;calling for a two-child limit for 'the poor'&lt;/a&gt;. No wonder they call it the 'silly season'...&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/21147733-61212636663599163?l=www.familylore.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/feeds/61212636663599163/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=21147733&amp;postID=61212636663599163&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/61212636663599163'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/61212636663599163'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/2010/08/plunging-over-edge-into-abyss-of-lunacy.html' title='Plunging &apos;over the edge into an abyss of lunacy&apos;: The Week in View'/><author><name>John Bolch</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16676004014279763939</uri><email>john@familylore.co.uk</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='09091821135639082434'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/THkaQQP8cdI/AAAAAAAADao/F8PkdYaoHew/s72-c/Week-in-View2.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21147733.post-6167748184119091980</id><published>2010-08-26T11:48:00.006+01:00</published><updated>2010-08-26T12:41:46.133+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Finance/Property'/><title type='text'>PENSION relief brief</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/THZPu1o70vI/AAAAAAAADaI/73f-jIwHkF0/s1600/BDM.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="float: left; margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; cursor: pointer; width: 161px; height: 87px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/THZPu1o70vI/AAAAAAAADaI/73f-jIwHkF0/s400/BDM.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5509678860225729266" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;I have just received issue 8 of their &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;PENSION&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;relief&lt;/span&gt; brief from &lt;a href="http://bradshawdixonmoore.com/"&gt;Bradshaw Dixon Moore&lt;/a&gt;. Dealing with the turmoil caused by the recent change in the measure of inflation used by State and statutory pensions from the Retail Prices Index (RPI) to the Consumer Prices Index (CPI), the brief makes important reading for all dealing with pensions and divorce.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You can subscribe to &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;PENSION&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;relief&lt;/span&gt; brief &lt;a href="http://www.ancillaryactuary.co.uk/pension-relief-briefs/"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;here&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/21147733-6167748184119091980?l=www.familylore.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/feeds/6167748184119091980/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=21147733&amp;postID=6167748184119091980&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/6167748184119091980'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/6167748184119091980'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/2010/08/pension-relief-brief.html' title='PENSION &lt;i&gt;relief&lt;/i&gt; brief'/><author><name>John Bolch</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16676004014279763939</uri><email>john@familylore.co.uk</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='09091821135639082434'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/THZPu1o70vI/AAAAAAAADaI/73f-jIwHkF0/s72-c/BDM.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21147733.post-6186681966689703344</id><published>2010-08-26T11:06:00.004+01:00</published><updated>2010-08-26T11:36:46.490+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Legal Aid'/><title type='text'>Legal aid contracts: LSC shift the goalposts - possible basis for challenge?</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/THY9ZY7X_ZI/AAAAAAAADaA/qTpqarHZqZY/s1600/goalposts.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float: left; margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; cursor: pointer; width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/THY9ZY7X_ZI/AAAAAAAADaA/qTpqarHZqZY/s320/goalposts.jpg" alt="" title="Shifting goalposts..." id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5509658700531891602" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Nearly Legal has &lt;a href="http://nearlylegal.co.uk/blog/2010/08/of-contracts-shifting-goalposts-and-lawfulness/"&gt;pointed out&lt;/a&gt; what he calls 'a major shift in position' by the LSC regarding the tender for civil contracts.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A FAQ on the LSC's website includes the question: "&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;I am concerned that I will not be able to deliver all the matter starts that I have been allocated, what should I do?&lt;/span&gt;", to which the answer was originally: "&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Under the contract, you will be required to deliver both the volume and breadth of services for which you have tendered….&lt;/span&gt;" Makes sense. However, the answer has now been changed to read: "&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;If you are in any doubt as to whether you can deliver all your matter starts, please contact us through the message board and let us know how many you would like. We will then adjust your total. It is important that you receive the right allocation at the start of the contract.&lt;/span&gt;" What??? So it doesn't matter how many you bid for, you'll still get the contract?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As Nearly Legal states, providers whose point scores were just below the ‘winners’ could "&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;have missed out of a contract on a false premise – that the winners could deliver what was bid for – and now the LSC seeks to unilaterally alter the terms of the tender without addressing the award of contracts. To me that sounds like a basis for challenge&lt;/span&gt;."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Not being involved in the contract process, I am no expert on its terms, forms and inevitable acronyms. However, Nearly Legal does seem to have a very good point here, one which should be passed on to any firms wishing to mount a challenge to the family tender.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/21147733-6186681966689703344?l=www.familylore.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/feeds/6186681966689703344/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=21147733&amp;postID=6186681966689703344&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/6186681966689703344'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/6186681966689703344'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/2010/08/legal-aid-contracts-lsc-shift-goalposts.html' title='Legal aid contracts: LSC shift the goalposts - possible basis for challenge?'/><author><name>John Bolch</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16676004014279763939</uri><email>john@familylore.co.uk</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='09091821135639082434'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/THY9ZY7X_ZI/AAAAAAAADaA/qTpqarHZqZY/s72-c/goalposts.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21147733.post-7021321477498639146</id><published>2010-08-25T16:59:00.003+01:00</published><updated>2010-08-25T18:33:08.062+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Child Support'/><title type='text'>Not a good idea #3...</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/THVSUkkbSmI/AAAAAAAADZw/fQ0cuLWCcjw/s1600/%24100.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 500px; height: 208px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/THVSUkkbSmI/AAAAAAAADZw/fQ0cuLWCcjw/s400/%24100.jpg" alt="" title="This is what a $100 bill looks like..." id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5509400232524991074" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Following on from &lt;a href="http://www.familylore.co.uk/2010/08/not-good-idea.html"&gt;this post&lt;/a&gt; and &lt;a href="http://www.familylore.co.uk/2010/08/not-good-idea-2.html"&gt;this post&lt;/a&gt;, here's another bad idea for those who don't like paying child support.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Let me tell you about the case of &lt;a href="http://www.leagle.com/unsecure/page.htm?shortname=inmoco20100824255"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Heck v Heck&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;, heard recently by the Court of Appeals of Missouri, Western District. It essentially concerned Mr Heck's appeal against the trial court's award of child support. Now, the charming Mr Heck had not done all he could to show himself to the court in the best light. In fact, there were one or two things that he did that didn't go down too well with the court, including:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;Disconnecting the battery cables on Mrs Heck's car&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;li&gt;Putting a mixture of Vaseline, mustard, brown sugar, and sardines on the doors and sidewalks at Mrs Heck's workplace;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;li&gt;After she obtained an order of protection, sending Mrs Heck threatening text messages, including one warning that: "&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;If you get sole custody, you'll never live through the night&lt;/span&gt;";&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;li&gt;Informing Mrs Heck that he would minimise his income, hide assets and do whatever was necessary to avoid obligations such as child support;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;li&gt;Sending Mrs Heck photographs of a number of $100 bills while claiming he had no money; and&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;li&gt;Telling Mrs Heck that: "When you are broke, I will take the kids."&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;Needless to say, Mr Heck's appeal was dismissed.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/21147733-7021321477498639146?l=www.familylore.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/feeds/7021321477498639146/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=21147733&amp;postID=7021321477498639146&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/7021321477498639146'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/7021321477498639146'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/2010/08/not-good-idea-3.html' title='Not a good idea #3...'/><author><name>John Bolch</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16676004014279763939</uri><email>john@familylore.co.uk</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='09091821135639082434'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/THVSUkkbSmI/AAAAAAAADZw/fQ0cuLWCcjw/s72-c/%24100.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21147733.post-3635953256421127831</id><published>2010-08-25T11:59:00.003+01:00</published><updated>2010-08-25T13:27:07.556+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Down Memory Lane'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Child Support'/><title type='text'>The Layette</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/THUL4_X7PAI/AAAAAAAADZo/297qGj--utA/s1600/Pram.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="float: left; margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; cursor: pointer; width: 218px; height: 202px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/THUL4_X7PAI/AAAAAAAADZo/297qGj--utA/s400/Pram.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5509322792870034434" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Whilst writing the previous post I was reminded of my pre-Child Support Act 1991 days, acting for mothers who sought not just maintenance from the father, but also a lump sum payment in respect of birth expenses. If I remember correctly, we called the expenses the 'layette', which for our purposes did not just include a first set of clothing for the baby, but also such essentials as a pram/pushchair, a cot and bedding. It could, therefore, amount to a fair sum, although not sufficient to warrant separate court proceedings, hence I don't recall ever coming across the layette again once the Child Support Act was implemented.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/21147733-3635953256421127831?l=www.familylore.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/feeds/3635953256421127831/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=21147733&amp;postID=3635953256421127831&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/3635953256421127831'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/3635953256421127831'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/2010/08/layette.html' title='The Layette'/><author><name>John Bolch</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16676004014279763939</uri><email>john@familylore.co.uk</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='09091821135639082434'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/THUL4_X7PAI/AAAAAAAADZo/297qGj--utA/s72-c/Pram.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21147733.post-3202797299086952044</id><published>2010-08-25T10:38:00.004+01:00</published><updated>2010-08-25T11:58:33.349+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Child Support'/><title type='text'>Child-less Support</title><content type='html'>Here's a &lt;a href="http://www.seattlepi.com/sound/425615_sound101319679.html"&gt;remarkable story&lt;/a&gt; from Washington State, USA. I don't know if it's unique, but I don't recall ever previously hearing of a woman (allegedly) faking a pregnancy in order to claim child support. That, however, is what Carmen Lynn Johnsen is accused of doing, with the result that she received a total of $3,500 from the alleged 'father'. Quite how she expected to get away with it (if true) without producing a child is not clear.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I do like the way that (at least some) original US court documents are available to view on the internet - see below. It is also nice to see that our legal system does not have a monopoly on archaic language ('to-wit', 'by color and aid of deception', 'against the peace and dignity of the State of Washington', etc.).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a title="View CANONCIVIL1_EXCHANGE_08232010-092551 on Scribd" href="http://www.scribd.com/doc/36308139/CANONCIVIL1-EXCHANGE-08232010-092551" style="margin: 12px auto 6px; font: 14px Helvetica,Arial,Sans-serif; display: block; text-decoration: underline;"&gt;CANONCIVIL1_EXCHANGE_08232010-092551&lt;/a&gt; &lt;object id="doc_839490855084115" name="doc_839490855084115" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" data="http://d1.scribdassets.com/ScribdViewer.swf" style="outline: medium none;" width="450" height="500"&gt;  &lt;param name="movie" value="http://d1.scribdassets.com/ScribdViewer.swf"&gt;  &lt;param name="wmode" value="opaque"&gt;   &lt;param name="bgcolor" value="#ffffff"&gt;   &lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"&gt;   &lt;param name="allowScriptAccess" value="always"&gt;   &lt;param name="FlashVars" value="document_id=36308139&amp;amp;access_key=key-2abemg50bx4hd15yseea&amp;amp;page=1&amp;amp;viewMode=list"&gt;   &lt;embed id="doc_839490855084115" name="doc_839490855084115" src="http://d1.scribdassets.com/ScribdViewer.swf?document_id=36308139&amp;amp;access_key=key-2abemg50bx4hd15yseea&amp;amp;page=1&amp;amp;viewMode=list" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" wmode="opaque" bgcolor="#ffffff" width="450" height="500"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;  &lt;/object&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/21147733-3202797299086952044?l=www.familylore.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/feeds/3202797299086952044/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=21147733&amp;postID=3202797299086952044&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/3202797299086952044'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/3202797299086952044'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/2010/08/child-less-support.html' title='Child-less Support'/><author><name>John Bolch</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16676004014279763939</uri><email>john@familylore.co.uk</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='09091821135639082434'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21147733.post-7223556944759383967</id><published>2010-08-25T07:38:00.004+01:00</published><updated>2010-08-25T08:09:40.357+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Children'/><title type='text'>Another good idea...</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/THTABfHE71I/AAAAAAAADZg/t9hi0znsfNY/s1600/Gin+Lane.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 471px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/THTABfHE71I/AAAAAAAADZg/t9hi0znsfNY/s400/Gin+Lane.jpg" alt="" title="See what happens when you give money to those awful poor people?" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5509239375944544082" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;In a not dissimilar vein to the last post, the &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Telegraph&lt;/span&gt; &lt;a href="http://www.telegraph.co.uk/culture/books/booknews/7962125/Author-Amanda-Craig-calls-for-two-child-limit-for-the-poor.html"&gt;reports today&lt;/a&gt; that novelist Amanda Craig says the Government should ban 'poor' people from having more than two children, to help save the environment. I should say that the idea is not quite as appalling as it first sounds - apparently, she is not calling for a ban, rather just resurrecting the old right-wing chestnut that the state should not keep paying benefits to those filthy poor, thereby encouraging them to keep multiplying. Quite right too.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/21147733-7223556944759383967?l=www.familylore.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/feeds/7223556944759383967/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=21147733&amp;postID=7223556944759383967&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/7223556944759383967'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/7223556944759383967'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/2010/08/another-good-idea.html' title='Another good idea...'/><author><name>John Bolch</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16676004014279763939</uri><email>john@familylore.co.uk</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='09091821135639082434'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/THTABfHE71I/AAAAAAAADZg/t9hi0znsfNY/s72-c/Gin+Lane.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21147733.post-6597538557634376590</id><published>2010-08-24T18:20:00.006+01:00</published><updated>2010-08-24T18:40:16.992+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='News Bites'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Children'/><title type='text'>Professor proposes that abusive parents be sterilised</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/THP_i5l9pAI/AAAAAAAADZY/YHrlz_081iQ/s1600/NewsBites4-small.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float: left; margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 106px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/THP_i5l9pAI/AAAAAAAADZY/YHrlz_081iQ/s400/NewsBites4-small.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5509027744244933634" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;There is very little serious family law news about at the moment but that &lt;a href="http://www.communitycare.co.uk/Articles/2010/08/24/115157/sterilise-parents-who-abuse-children-top-professor-says.htm"&gt;this idea&lt;/a&gt;, with its dark historic echoes, is even given airtime makes me feel very uneasy. I am all for freedom of debate, but do we really want to give encouragement to such extremist views?&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/21147733-6597538557634376590?l=www.familylore.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/feeds/6597538557634376590/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=21147733&amp;postID=6597538557634376590&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/6597538557634376590'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/6597538557634376590'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/2010/08/professor-proposes-that-abusive-parents.html' title='Professor proposes that abusive parents be sterilised'/><author><name>John Bolch</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16676004014279763939</uri><email>john@familylore.co.uk</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='09091821135639082434'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/THP_i5l9pAI/AAAAAAAADZY/YHrlz_081iQ/s72-c/NewsBites4-small.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21147733.post-6652821742913593038</id><published>2010-08-24T08:49:00.003+01:00</published><updated>2010-08-24T09:20:35.315+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Celebrity Watch'/><title type='text'>Tiger Woods divorce: All the 'news'</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/THN5xYSgplI/AAAAAAAADZQ/B_PIq58mRDs/s1600/Celebrity3.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 258px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/THN5xYSgplI/AAAAAAAADZQ/B_PIq58mRDs/s400/Celebrity3.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5508880658444887634" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;The big family law news of the moment is, of course, the finalisation of the Tiger Woods divorce. Now, I would expect this important event to take up plenty of column inches in the tabloid press, but what has surprised me is the amount of broadsheet coverage, specifically in the &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Telegraph&lt;/span&gt;. I have not scoured that esteemed publication for every mention of Tiger+Woods, but these 'stories' all cropped up in my feed reader this morning:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;1. 9:34PM BST 23 Aug 2010:&lt;/span&gt; For those with short memories, we are given a useful &lt;a href="http://www.telegraph.co.uk/sport/golf/tigerwoods/7960933/Tiger-Woods-timeline-of-his-marriage-breakdown.html"&gt;timeline of the marriage breakdown&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;2. 11:00PM BST 23 Aug 2010:&lt;/span&gt; We are told that "&lt;a href="http://www.telegraph.co.uk/sport/golf/tigerwoods/7961029/Tiger-Woods-divorce-what-was-the-settlement.html"&gt;speculation is rife as to the exact details of the settlement&lt;/a&gt;". Such is the lack of information, that the &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Telegraph&lt;/span&gt; turns to that old stalwart Vanessa Lloyd Platt for her views.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;3. 12:52AM BST 24 Aug 2010:&lt;/span&gt; We are treated to a list of &lt;a href="http://www.telegraph.co.uk/sport/golf/tigerwoods/7961200/Tiger-Woods-the-worlds-top-ten-highest-divorce-settlements.html"&gt;the world's top ten highest divorce settlements&lt;/a&gt;, which is dragged out every time a large settlement is on the cards.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;4. 2:00AM BST 24 Aug 2010:&lt;/span&gt; The &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Telegraph&lt;/span&gt; is struggling for real news now, so gives us a &lt;a href="http://www.telegraph.co.uk/sport/golf/tigerwoods/7961208/Tiger-Woods-divorce-the-women-involved.html"&gt;story about the other women involved&lt;/a&gt;, or at least some of them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;5. 6:00AM BST 24 Aug 2010:&lt;/span&gt; Finally, we are taken &lt;a href="http://www.telegraph.co.uk/sport/golf/tigerwoods/7961209/Tiger-Woods-divorce-inside-the-courtroom.html"&gt;inside the courtroom&lt;/a&gt; where we are informed that: "Miss Nordegren was said to have had eight lawyers present, according to celebrity website TMZ", and that: "they did not look at each other, a source told celebrity website Radar Online".&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thank heavens that we still have the broadsheets to give us the real news...&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/21147733-6652821742913593038?l=www.familylore.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/feeds/6652821742913593038/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=21147733&amp;postID=6652821742913593038&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/6652821742913593038'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/6652821742913593038'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/2010/08/tiger-woods-divorce-all-news.html' title='Tiger Woods divorce: All the &apos;news&apos;'/><author><name>John Bolch</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16676004014279763939</uri><email>john@familylore.co.uk</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='09091821135639082434'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/THN5xYSgplI/AAAAAAAADZQ/B_PIq58mRDs/s72-c/Celebrity3.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21147733.post-7202791849385745351</id><published>2010-08-24T08:38:00.003+01:00</published><updated>2010-08-24T08:49:34.914+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Domestic Violence'/><title type='text'>Shameless</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/THN5AqFa_LI/AAAAAAAADZI/WUL2CWLQGwI/s1600/TV.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 179px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/THN5AqFa_LI/AAAAAAAADZI/WUL2CWLQGwI/s200/TV.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5508879821408238770" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;There is normally nothing funny about domestic violence, but I have to admit that I was amused by &lt;a href="http://thelawwestofealingbroadway.blogspot.com/2010/08/life-imitates-art.html"&gt;this little vignette of modern family life&lt;/a&gt; over on &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;The Magistrate's Blog&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/21147733-7202791849385745351?l=www.familylore.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/feeds/7202791849385745351/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=21147733&amp;postID=7202791849385745351&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/7202791849385745351'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/7202791849385745351'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/2010/08/shameless.html' title='Shameless'/><author><name>John Bolch</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16676004014279763939</uri><email>john@familylore.co.uk</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='09091821135639082434'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/THN5AqFa_LI/AAAAAAAADZI/WUL2CWLQGwI/s72-c/TV.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21147733.post-4133171625712280348</id><published>2010-08-23T08:40:00.004+01:00</published><updated>2010-08-23T08:56:58.876+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Children'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Family Justice System'/><title type='text'>Panorama investigates parents' child abuse 'nightmare' in family courts</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/THInVhvXUHI/AAAAAAAADZA/ed8QAuDdLPU/s1600/Panorama.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 445px; height: 252px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/THInVhvXUHI/AAAAAAAADZA/ed8QAuDdLPU/s400/Panorama.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5508508545015304306" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Just a quick post to point out that tonight's &lt;a href="http://news.bbc.co.uk/panorama/hi/front_page/newsid_8928000/8928337.stm"&gt;Panorama&lt;/a&gt; programme on BBC One (8.30pm) may be of interest to readers of this blog. It deals with the case of Jake and Victoria Ward, who were suspected of hurting their three-month-old son and spent nearly two years fighting to clear their names.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I just hope that the reporting is even-handed, but I won't hold my breath.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/21147733-4133171625712280348?l=www.familylore.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/4133171625712280348'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/4133171625712280348'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/2010/08/panorama-investigates-parents-child.html' title='Panorama investigates parents&apos; child abuse &apos;nightmare&apos; in family courts'/><author><name>John Bolch</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16676004014279763939</uri><email>john@familylore.co.uk</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='09091821135639082434'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/THInVhvXUHI/AAAAAAAADZA/ed8QAuDdLPU/s72-c/Panorama.JPG' height='72' width='72'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21147733.post-3916301388888307947</id><published>2010-08-21T15:49:00.002+01:00</published><updated>2010-08-21T15:54:12.740+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Children'/><title type='text'>There are no winners in child custody cases</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/TG_n9ibTxiI/AAAAAAAADY4/IcmGsjtk-fk/s1600/Prize.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 400px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/TG_n9ibTxiI/AAAAAAAADY4/IcmGsjtk-fk/s400/Prize.jpg" alt="" title="A child is not a prize..." id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5507875913696790050" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;I've noticed that a certain American law firm (who I will not name) has recently been using its blog to announce to the world child custody cases that it has 'won'.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now, I'm sure that this will impress some people, and may therefore even bring the firm some new clients, but it does not impress me.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For a start, even the worse law firm will from time to time achieve the result that its client is seeking, and to publicise those cases without reference to all of the other cases that the firm handles is meaningless in terms of indicating how good the firm is at its work.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;More importantly, however, the idea of 'winning' in child custody work (or, for that matter, in any type of family work) is, I think, repugnant and archaic. We are not talking about money claims here, we are talking about the lives of children. To suggest that these cases are some sort of competition, with custody being the 'prize' that the court hands out is to miss the point entirely. The only thing that matters is what is best for the children. The terminology of 'winners' and 'losers' encourages a confrontational attitude in the parents, which ultimately can only be damaging for the children.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Of course, confrontational parents means more contested cases, and more fees for the lawyers...&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/21147733-3916301388888307947?l=www.familylore.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/feeds/3916301388888307947/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=21147733&amp;postID=3916301388888307947&amp;isPopup=true' title='7 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/3916301388888307947'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/3916301388888307947'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/2010/08/there-are-no-winners-in-child-custody.html' title='There are no winners in child custody cases'/><author><name>John Bolch</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16676004014279763939</uri><email>john@familylore.co.uk</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='09091821135639082434'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/TG_n9ibTxiI/AAAAAAAADY4/IcmGsjtk-fk/s72-c/Prize.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>7</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21147733.post-5147279488507945692</id><published>2010-08-21T10:17:00.004+01:00</published><updated>2010-08-21T11:04:13.233+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Legal Profession'/><title type='text'>Learning the Law</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/TG-kCus_HOI/AAAAAAAADYw/Mf8u2eUg1Aw/s1600/Glanville-Williams.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 302px; height: 400px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/TG-kCus_HOI/AAAAAAAADYw/Mf8u2eUg1Aw/s400/Glanville-Williams.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5507801236100816098" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Final clearance of my late father's house is now taking place. In the loft we found many of his old legal textbooks. Unfortunately, lack of available space means that they have to go. I have, however, awarded a stay of execution to one small tome, a slightly tatty copy of a book I recognised from my own time as a law student. &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Learning the Law&lt;/span&gt; by the late &lt;a href="http://www.independent.co.uk/news/people/obituary-professor-glanville-williams-1267628.html"&gt;Professor Glanville Williams&lt;/a&gt; will be recognised by many lawyers as the book that introduced them to their legal studies. As can be seen from the image above, my father had the seventh edition, published in 1963, which he purchased second-hand from Wildy &amp;amp; Sons.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.sweetandmaxwell.co.uk/Catalogue/ProductDetails.aspx?recordid=4210&amp;amp;productid=356528"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Glanville Williams: Learning the Law&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; is still in print, with the 14th edition having just been published, now authored by &lt;a href="http://www.5rb.com/member/Tony_Smith"&gt;Professor Tony Smith&lt;/a&gt;. I have not read a recent edition, but I suspect that it may have been thoroughly re-written since 1963, when Glanville Williams began his section on solicitors thus:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"The life of a successful solicitor is not so exacting as that of his opposite number at the Bar; the solicitor has his clerks and junior partners to do some of the work for him. He misses the &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;camaraderie&lt;/span&gt; of the Circuit Mess and the exhilaration of forensic battle in the exalted courts, but his work is generally more varied than the barrister's, and offers closer contact with the life of the ordinary man."&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/21147733-5147279488507945692?l=www.familylore.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/feeds/5147279488507945692/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=21147733&amp;postID=5147279488507945692&amp;isPopup=true' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/5147279488507945692'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/5147279488507945692'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/2010/08/learning-law.html' title='Learning the Law'/><author><name>John Bolch</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16676004014279763939</uri><email>john@familylore.co.uk</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='09091821135639082434'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/TG-kCus_HOI/AAAAAAAADYw/Mf8u2eUg1Aw/s72-c/Glanville-Williams.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21147733.post-6627723635530153340</id><published>2010-08-21T10:06:00.004+01:00</published><updated>2010-08-21T10:17:25.828+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Celebrity Watch'/><title type='text'>Negotiation, Mel Gibson style</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/TG-XIJIciJI/AAAAAAAADYo/h4L1QoTKU3Y/s1600/Celebrity-small.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float: left; margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 129px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/TG-XIJIciJI/AAAAAAAADYo/h4L1QoTKU3Y/s400/Celebrity-small.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5507787035443497106" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Mel Gibson's public relations disaster continues with the news that he apparently thinks that his &lt;a href="http://www.nydailynews.com/gossip/2010/08/20/2010-08-20_mel_gibson_thinks_baby_mama_deserves_only_1_percent_of_his_monthly_living_expens.html"&gt;ex deserves only 1 percent of his monthly living expenses for child support&lt;/a&gt;. He is reportedly trying to limit the monthly child support payments to $6,000, whilst at the same time claiming that he needs $600,000 a month for "absolute necessities".&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now, I don't know the details of this case, but I assume that $6,000 a month is effectively a 'first offer' rather than a serious proposal, although if it is I somewhat doubt whether it will form the basis for successful settlement negotiations.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/21147733-6627723635530153340?l=www.familylore.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/feeds/6627723635530153340/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=21147733&amp;postID=6627723635530153340&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/6627723635530153340'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/6627723635530153340'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/2010/08/negotiation-mel-gibson-style.html' title='Negotiation, Mel Gibson style'/><author><name>John Bolch</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16676004014279763939</uri><email>john@familylore.co.uk</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='09091821135639082434'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/TG-XIJIciJI/AAAAAAAADYo/h4L1QoTKU3Y/s72-c/Celebrity-small.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21147733.post-7966031140859961084</id><published>2010-08-20T08:28:00.003+01:00</published><updated>2010-08-20T08:40:43.736+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Marriage'/><title type='text'>Sad iPad Wedding</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/TG4uwvKC7dI/AAAAAAAADYg/axRSkQHwZRg/s1600/iPad-wedding.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 267px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/TG4uwvKC7dI/AAAAAAAADYg/axRSkQHwZRg/s400/iPad-wedding.jpg" alt="" title="Sad." id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5507390809147895250" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;I've never understood this obsession some people have with Apple products. I mean, how can you call yourself a computer geek if you've never experienced a Windows &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Blue_Screen_of_Death"&gt;Blue Screen of Death&lt;/a&gt;? Whatever, this couple in America have just gone too far with their &lt;a href="http://offbeatbride.com/2010/08/ipad-wedding"&gt;iPad wedding&lt;/a&gt;. How sad is that?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Right, I'm off to work on my iPad divorce app...&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/21147733-7966031140859961084?l=www.familylore.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/feeds/7966031140859961084/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=21147733&amp;postID=7966031140859961084&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/7966031140859961084'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/7966031140859961084'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/2010/08/sad-ipad-wedding.html' title='Sad iPad Wedding'/><author><name>John Bolch</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16676004014279763939</uri><email>john@familylore.co.uk</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='09091821135639082434'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/TG4uwvKC7dI/AAAAAAAADYg/axRSkQHwZRg/s72-c/iPad-wedding.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21147733.post-2898351439236783768</id><published>2010-08-20T07:50:00.003+01:00</published><updated>2010-08-20T08:03:52.056+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='News Bites'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Children'/><title type='text'>Care proceedings can't be rushed</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/TG4lztVx80I/AAAAAAAADYY/hLtpJWMg2As/s1600/NewsBites4-small.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float: left; margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 106px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/TG4lztVx80I/AAAAAAAADYY/hLtpJWMg2As/s400/NewsBites4-small.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5507380964595200834" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Just a quick heads-up for &lt;a href="http://www.guardian.co.uk/commentisfree/2010/aug/20/care-assessment-limited-time-scale"&gt;an article in The Guardian's &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Comment is free&lt;/span&gt; column today&lt;/a&gt; by Leslie Baker, a magistrate and member of the ­Wiltshire family proceedings panel. He argues that decisions on care orders are too sensitive to be given a fixed deadline, and seems to me to talk a lot of sense.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/21147733-2898351439236783768?l=www.familylore.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/feeds/2898351439236783768/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=21147733&amp;postID=2898351439236783768&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/2898351439236783768'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/2898351439236783768'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/2010/08/care-proceedings-cant-be-rushed.html' title='Care proceedings can&apos;t be rushed'/><author><name>John Bolch</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16676004014279763939</uri><email>john@familylore.co.uk</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='09091821135639082434'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/TG4lztVx80I/AAAAAAAADYY/hLtpJWMg2As/s72-c/NewsBites4-small.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21147733.post-5232677501718279459</id><published>2010-08-18T08:52:00.003+01:00</published><updated>2010-08-18T09:14:38.227+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='News Bites'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Legal Aid'/><title type='text'>Divided we fall</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/TGuV9uaYLII/AAAAAAAADYQ/q16nqaRQlog/s1600/NewsBites4-small.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float: left; margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 106px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/TGuV9uaYLII/AAAAAAAADYQ/q16nqaRQlog/s400/NewsBites4-small.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5506659857053789314" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Further to my &lt;a href="http://www.familylore.co.uk/2010/08/legal-aid-contracts-debacle-tragedy-or.html"&gt;post yesterday&lt;/a&gt;, I notice that Resolution and the Law Society have adopted different positions with regard to the legal aid bid round tender process. The Law Society has &lt;a href="http://www.lawgazette.co.uk/news/law-society-calls-suspension-family-tender-result"&gt;called for the implementation of the family legal aid tender round to be suspended&lt;/a&gt;. However, in an e-newsletter to its members yesterday Resolution stated that they cannot support such a stance, taking the view "that further delay and uncertainty around the civil bid round would have a far greater destabilising effect than the present situation".&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I am far too far removed from this to comment in detail, but wouldn't it have been better to present a united front?&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/21147733-5232677501718279459?l=www.familylore.co.uk' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/feeds/5232677501718279459/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=21147733&amp;postID=5232677501718279459&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/5232677501718279459'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/5232677501718279459'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/2010/08/divided-we-fall.html' title='Divided we fall'/><author><name>John Bolch</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16676004014279763939</uri><email>john@familylore.co.uk</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='09091821135639082434'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/TGuV9uaYLII/AAAAAAAADYQ/q16nqaRQlog/s72-c/NewsBites4-small.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry></feed>