Showing posts with label Cohabitation. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Cohabitation. Show all posts

Friday, June 02, 2017

Friday, April 07, 2017

Everyone has their limit...


...and sometimes the system pushes them beyond it. This was one of the topics I explored in my posts this week on Marilyn Stowe’s Family Law & Divorce Blog, which included:

A sad tale of a father pushed to the limit - As the title says.

Hague case “a very real and humanly painful dilemma” - The case being T (A Child : Hague Convention proceedings).

Don’t expect much sympathy from the court if you don’t obey its orders - As in Assoun v Assoun [No 1].

Celebrating fifty years of freedom in relationships - When I'm sixty-four (and it ain't long now...).

Have a good weekend.

Friday, November 18, 2016

Posting potpourri


My posts this week on Marilyn Stowe’s Family Law & Divorce Blog may not have been fragrant, but they certainly covered a varied a mixture of topics:

A rare example of a ‘modest means’ appeal - The case C v C.

What exactly is ‘unreasonable behaviour’? - My attempt to answer the question.

An alternate future for the family - I look into my crystal ball...

The welfare checklist, Irish style - A comparison of the Irish and English/Welsh versions of the welfare checklist.

Have a good weekend.

Friday, November 04, 2016

Cohabitation law is failing 3.3 million families, says Resolution


Figures published today by the Office of National Statistics reveal that there are now 3.3 million cohabiting couple families in the UK, with the number more than doubling over the last twenty years.

Yet should these couples separate, they currently have little or no legal protection - despite the myth of ‘common law marriage.’ The family law group Resolution today said that the high growth in cohabiting couples is further evidence that the law needs to catch up with modern British society.

Nigel Shepherd, Resolution Chair, said:

“These ONS figures are further proof that more and more couples are choosing to live together and bring up their children without marrying. Sadly, some of those relationships will come to an end at some point. This is a feature of our modern society that is here to stay and unfortunately current cohabitation law is failing to provide them with the rights some of them mistakenly think they have.

“Rather than ignoring these 3.3 million families, our lawmakers must respond and introduce safety net legislation that will provide legal protection and fair outcomes at the time of a couple's separation.”

Last year Resolution released its Manifesto for Family Law calling for the introduction of some rights for cohabiting couples when they separate. Research in 2013 from relationships charity One Plus One shows that almost half (47%) of the British public believe in the myth of “common law marriage”, the notion that cohabiting couples have similar legal rights to married people.

Family lawyer Graeme Fraser, Resolution’s spokesman on cohabitation law, said:

“Under current cohabitation law it’s possible to live with someone for decades and even to have children together and then simply walk away without taking any responsibility for a former partner when the relationship breaks down. This can have a huge impact on women and children, particularly in cases where a mother has given up or reduced her work to raise a family”.

Wednesday, July 13, 2016

New statistics show laws need to catch up with modern families, says family justice group


Today’s statistics, showing cohabiting couples represent nearly 10% of the population, are further proof that the law on cohabitation needs to catch up with modern British society, says family law organisation Resolution.
Cohabiting couples currently have little legal protection when they separate. Lawyer Graeme Fraser, Resolution’s spokesman on cohabitation law, explains:
Under current cohabitation law it’s possible to live with someone for decades and even to have children together and then simply walk away without taking any responsibility for a former partner when the relationship breaks down. This can have a huge impact on women and children, particularly in cases where a mother has given up or reduced her work to raise a family.”
According to the ONS, people who were “cohabiting: never married or civil partnered” represented 6.8% of the population in 2002. This had increased to to 9.5% by 2015. The ONS say this may be explained by an increasing trend to cohabit instead of marry, or to cohabit before marriage, particularly at younger ages. According to Families and Households: 2015, cohabiting couple families are the fastest growing family type in the UK (2004 to 2015).
Graeme Fraser comments:
"These statistics should be regarded by policymakers as a wake-up call that cohabitation is a trend of modern society that is not going to go away. As family lawyers who see the damage caused by the lack of protection for cohabiting couples when they separate, Resolution calls for the urgent introduction of safety net legislation providing legal protection and fair outcomes at the time of a couple's separation, particularly for children and mothers left vulnerable under the existing law.
He continues: “In light of the latest ONS data, reform of the law for cohabiting couples should be one of the top priorities for whoever the new Prime Minister appoints as Justice Secretary.”
Last year Resolution released its Manifesto for Family Law calling for the introduction of some rights for cohabiting couples when they separate. Research in 2013 from relationships charity One Plus One shows that almost half (47%) of the British public believe in the myth of “common law marriage”, the notion that cohabiting couples have similar legal rights to married people. 

Friday, July 01, 2016

Amicable divorce, enforcing contact and more...


My posts this week on Marilyn Stowe’s Family Law & Divorce Blog included some advice for those seeking an amicable divorce, a look at how a cohabitee property system can work and a couple of ECHR judgments:

An amicable divorce - Seven steps that might make it possible.

A cohabitee property dispute, Scottish style - The Scottish Court of Session case Melvin v Christie.

A not-so-private affair - The ECHR judgment, Sihler-Jauch and Jauch v Germany.

Failure to enforce contact breaches father’s human rights - Another ECHR case, Malec v Poland.

Have a good weekend.

Thursday, March 24, 2016

Fairer fees, non-matrimonial people and property


A short week on Marilyn Stowe’s Family Law & Divorce Blog, but still one with plenty to talk about, including the scandalous court fee increase, an example of the hoops you have to go through to get to court if you didn't marry and a judgment concerning how assets owned prior to the marriage should be treated:

The great court fees scandal, and one way to make it fairer - An idea to counter the appalling increase in the divorce fee.

A tangled legal web for the unmarried - As demonstrated by S v J & Ors.

The distinction between matrimonial and non-matrimonial property - As argued over in Robertson v Robertson.

Have a good Easter weekend.

Friday, February 19, 2016

Family law: A force for good


My posts this week on Marilyn Stowe’s Family Law & Divorce Blog begin with the debunking of an exaggeration and a myth, and end with a truism: that family law can be a force for good:

Examining the cost of relationship breakdown - The reality behind the sensationalist figures.

Common law marriage - the myth that won’t go away - A House of Commons Briefing Paper helps to dispel it.

What can happen if a contact order is disobeyed - The case H-R (Children).

Family law: Broken families and broken lives - Sometimes family law can make a difference.

Have a good weekend.

Friday, January 15, 2016

(Insert appropriate Bowie song title here)


All a bit depressing this week as my posts on Marilyn Stowe’s Family Law & Divorce Blog began on a sad note and ended on a bleak one:

David Bowie and recognising when you were wrong - In which I confess my teenage musical preferences.

Judicial exhortations and deaf ears - As in Li Quan v Bray, amongst many others.

Even if the Marriage Foundation were right, they’d still be wrong - Hint: they're not right.

A justice system in crisis, and a vision of the future - Looking at the reports of Lord Thomas and Lord Briggs, both published this week.

Have a good weekend.

Thursday, November 05, 2015

New cohabitation stats reveal the need for the law to catch up with society


New data from the Office for National Statistics released today confirming that unmarried couples living together are the fastest growing family type in the UK is further proof that the law on cohabitation needs to catch up with modern British society, says family law organisation Resolution.

Cohabiting couples currently have little legal protection when they separate. Lawyer Graeme Fraser, Resolution’s spokesman on cohabitation law, explains:

“Under current cohabitation law it’s possible to live with someone for decades and even to have children together and then simply walk away without taking any responsibility for a former partner when the relationship breaks down. This can have a huge impact on women and children, particularly in cases where a mother has given up or reduced her work to raise a family.”

According to the ONS Families and Households survey, released 5 November 2015, there are now 3.1 million opposite sex cohabiting couple families, which has increased from 14% of all families in 2005 to 17% in 2015. 41% of all opposite sex cohabiting couple families have dependent children in the household, this figure having increased as a result of the average age at first marriage being higher (30.3 years) than the average age of women at the birth of their first child (28.3 years). Same sex cohabiting couple families have also increased to 90,000 in 2015.

Graeme Fraser comments:

"These statistics should be regarded by policymakers as a wake-up call that cohabitation is a trend of modern society that is not going to go away. As family lawyers who see the damage caused by the lack of protection for cohabiting couples when they separate, Resolution calls for the urgent introduction of safety net legislation providing legal protection and fair outcomes at the time of a couple's separation, particularly for children and mothers left vulnerable under the existing law.”

He continues: “In light of the latest ONS data it will be interesting to see Parliament’s reaction to the Cohabitation Rights Bill tabled by Lord Marks, which is currently in its early stages.”

Earlier this year Resolution, released its Manifesto for Family Law, calling for the introduction of some rights for cohabiting couples when they separate. Research in 2013 from relationships charity One Plus One shows that almost half (47%) of the British public believe in the myth of “common law marriage”, the notion that cohabiting couples have similar legal rights to married people.

Friday, August 28, 2015

I don't like to say I told you so, but...


What I have said before comes to pass in three of the posts I wrote for Marilyn Stowe’s Family Law & Divorce Blog this week, which include:

The Marriage Foundation’s figures disprove their case - The Foundation shoots itself in its dogmatic foot.

The dangers of unregulated McKenzie friends - As demonstrated by the recent story that a ‘professional’ McKenzie friend has been jailed for three years.

Domestic violence figures are sobering - A quick internet search gives pause for thought.

Headlines demonstrate futility of transparency effort - Recent headlines in certain national newspapers prove what I have said all along...

Have a good weekend.

Friday, August 07, 2015

The truth does not always fall halfway between two extremes


The truth, however, can of course be found in my posts this week on Marilyn Stowe’s Family Law & Divorce Blog. (Please note that the emboldening in the posts is not my doing.)

Court not prepared to vary undertaking in consent order - Not the most exciting title, but explanatory of the judgment in Birch v Birch.

When one cohabitee wants to buy from the other - The interesting outcome of Bagum v Hafiz & Anor.

Should there be such a thing as ‘gay adultery’? - My take on the 'gay adultery' debate, as discussed on the BBC the other day.

Child arrangements: The truth does not always fall halfway between two extremes - A sentence I came across with reference to the debate between science and religion rang bells for me in relation to arrangements for children following the separation of their parents.

Have a good weekend.

Tuesday, July 14, 2015

Guerroudj v Rymarczyk: Order made under liberty to apply provision upheld

Lord Justice Underhill
A short note on the Court of Appeal decision Guerroudj v Rymarczyk [2015] EWCA Civ 743, handed down today.

This was a dispute between two former cohabitees over a secure tenancy. The outcome revolved around the circumstances of the parties. The man, Mr Guerroudj ('Mr G'), had a back condition which made him unable to work. The woman, Ms Rymarczyk ('Ms R'), was in work, but on a low income.

The tenancy was provided to the couple by the local authority because, or at least in part because, of Mr G's back condition - it was not adapted in any way, but was on the ground floor, which was important because he had difficulty climbing stairs.

The relationship broke down and both parties sought a transfer of the tenancy under Part IV of the Family Law Act 1996. The judge  made an order in Mr G's favour, partly because he found that Mr G's back condition was a very significant factor in the grant of the tenancy. He ordered Mr G to pay 'compensation' of £1,500 to Ms R. He included in the order a liberty to apply provision. The reason for doing so was that:
"He was evidently unhappy about whether he had been given enough information about the prospects of either party obtaining alternative accommodation if they had to quit, which was potentially a decisive consideration, and he wanted to leave open the possibility of considering it further."
Shortly after the order was made Ms R informed the court that she had been advised by Shelter that because Mr G was physically disabled he would be able to establish a priority need for housing and would be owed a duty under Part 7 of the Housing Act 1996 to be accommodated by the local authority. She, on the other hand, was not owed any such housing duty or assistance as she was not classed as having a priority need.

The matter went back before the court and the judge set aside his previous decision, ordering a transfer of the tenancy to Ms R, who he found could not afford a 1 bedroom flat within a reasonable distance of her place of work. Mr G appealed.

In the Court of Appeal the central issue was whether the judge should have undertaken a further hearing under the liberty to apply provision. Giving the leading judgment, Lord Justice Underhill  felt that on balance he was entitled to do so under the liberty to apply provision:
"...the whole point about the liberty to apply was that the Judge felt that at the first hearing insufficient attention had been paid to the parties' prospects of obtaining other accommodation. As to that, he did now have some further material."
On the basis of that further material, the judge was entitled to come to the decision that he did. Accordingly, the appeal was dismissed. Lord Justice Underhill did, however, have a suggestion as to how the judge should have proceeded at the original hearing:
"The one criticism that I would, with respect, make is that it would have been better - if, as he evidently did, he felt that justice required a fuller exploration of the possibilities of alternative accommodation - if he had simply adjourned the hearing and kept his counsel as to any provisional conclusion that he might have reached."
Mr Justice Hildyard and Lord Justice Munby gave concurring judgments.

Friday, April 10, 2015

A short week...


... but hopefully still with something of interest in my posts on Marilyn Stowe’s Family Law & Divorce Blog, which included:

Should women sign post-nups? - Or not, as unsurprisingly advised by the wife in Hopkins v Hopkins.

Family law: a warped view of human nature - What family law professionals witness every day.

A lesson from the past - What Gissing v Gissing can still teach us today.

Have a good weekend.

Friday, December 19, 2014

It's beginning to feel a lot like Christmas, unfortunately


Want to escape the horrors of Christmas, including all that shopping, all those awful parties and animated snow on websites? Then why not head over to Marilyn Stowe’s Family Law & Divorce Blog and read my posts there this week, which include:

Child Maintenance Options: success or failure? - Looking at the recent statistical report from the DWP.

Denying a father contact - As in Re P-K (Children).

Child relocation: the hardest decision - As described by Mr Justice Mostyn in NJ v OV.

Cohabitation rights: a question of fairness - Discussing Baroness Deech's thoughts on the Cohabitation Rights Bill.

Have a good weekend and, in case I don't post here again beforehand, enjoy your Christmas.

Tuesday, December 16, 2014

Cohabitation law reform is at least a decade overdue says leading family charity

Jane Robey
The largest provider of family meditation in England and Wales has welcomed the passing of the Cohabitation Rights Bill’s Second Reading in the House of Lords.

National Family Mediation’s expert professionals help separating couples agree settlements on property, finance and parenting issues without the need for a courtroom drama. They achieve full agreement in over 80 per cent of cases.

The organisation’s Chief Executive, Jane Robey, says “Government recognition of cohabitation as being equal to marriage is at least a decade overdue, so the Cohabitation Rights Bill is a welcome step in the right direction.

“The disadvantages that exist for cohabitating people in lengthy relationships with children are profound, and have needed correcting for some time.

“The real difficulty in achieving reform in this area is that governments tend to step back from changing the law late in the game, for fear of being seen to undermine ‘the institution of marriage’.

“With the Lords Committee Stage of this Bill yet to be scheduled, and further subsequent steps in the Parliamentary process to be navigated, there is a worry that we could end up, a year from now, with no effective change having been brought about.”

The Cohabitation Rights Bill, which aims to give “certain protections for persons who live together as a couple or have lived together as a couple; and to make provision about the property of deceased persons who are survived by a cohabitant; and for connected purposes” passed its Second Reading in the House of Lords on Friday 12 December. The full text of the Bill can be found here.

Friday, August 22, 2014

A little holiday reading...


Whilst I have been taking a bit of a break this week from blogging on Family Lore, I have still been writing for Marilyn Stowe's Family Law & Divorce Blog. My posts there include:

Who needs the law anyway? - What would happen without a family justice system.

A little more on the reform of divorce - As mentioned in the President's 13th View from his chambers.

Important cases: Stack v Dowden - A look at Stack v Dowden, obviously...

Important cases: Jones v Kernott - ...followed by a look at Jones v Kernott.

I hope you find something there of interest.

Have a good weekend and Summer bank holiday.

Sunday, March 30, 2014

Sunday Review: I told you so...


A quick mention of two stories that popped up yesterday:

Firstly, the BBC reported that, according to research by Pat Thane, professor in contemporary history at King's College, London, the idea of the traditional British family, where children grew up in two-married-parent households, is a myth. She argues that until World War Two, significant numbers of people never married. Thus, for example, in 1939 some 30% of children were conceived out of wedlock. She says:
"There is a well-known narrative in Britain about the history of the family - that 'traditionally' people lived in stable two-parent families with married parents who stayed together life-long, boys had fathers at home for role-models who kept them disciplined, and everyone looked after the older generation.

"Then came the 1960s and permissiveness, and people started divorcing, living together and having babies outside marriage; unprecedented numbers of complex families of step-relatives formed; and British society was 'broken' as some would put it.

"I want suggest that the real story is a bit more complicated."
The professor acknowledged that there was at least one point between 1945 and 1979 that marriage became "almost universal", but she said: "This is a period which, in present-day discourse, is often presented as an historical norm of long-lasting stable marriages. It was actually historically very unusual in the numbers of long-lasting marriages." One source of that discourse is, of course Sir Paul Coleridge's Marriage Foundation. The Foundation deny that they are trying to turn back the clock, but when they say such things as "We have lost confidence in marriage as an institution at the heart of families", it is clear that they do believe the past was a better place, when obviously it was not.

That nice Mr Grayling
The other story I want to mention appeared in The Observer, which reported that cuts in legal aid are creating chaos in the family courts, according to legal experts. The story tells us of delays caused by the number of LiPs, domestic violence victims facing abusers in court without representation, children stuck in limbo whilst their parents dispute 'custody' and people who simply cannot afford to go to court. All of which was, of course, completely foreseeable before legal aid was abolished for private law family matters last April. The MoJ is, however, unrepentant. They said that the reforms were necessary to stop the legal aid budget ballooning, but insisted that the vulnerable would not lose out. As to the first point, the story tells us that experts question whether the measures would save money, saying that they believed the ministry had failed to appreciate the consequences of the cuts. As to the second point well, that is patently untrue.

Oh, and before I go - congratulations to all those gay couples who have tied/are about to tie the knot!

Wednesday, March 05, 2014

Wednesday Review: It's all about the money


A couple of pecuniary things...

Unsurprisingly, practitioners have warmly welcomed the response of the Senior Judiciary to the Ministry of Justice's consultation paper on reform of court fees (see, for example, this post on Pink Tape), in which they 'savaged' the Government's proposals to increase fees. As to the proposal that the fee on a divorce petition be increased to £750 the judiciary did not agree with this, pointing out that some people may not be able to afford to divorce, meaning that they would be forced to cohabit when they formed new relationships. All of which is particularly ironic given the second thing I wanted to mention:

Lord Freud
It seems that the 'cost of family breakdown to the country' is becoming a real bandwagon. The latest suspect to jump on is welfare minister Lord Freud, who claims that it could be costing the country up to £46 billion a year. £46 billion. I hope that makes all those awful people who have been selfish enough to allow their families to break down feel guilty. Speaking in the House of Lords, he also said that the Government should actively attempt to reverse what he called “major structural changes” in society away from marriage and towards cohabitation. More social engineering from those who know best. Anyway, isn't this the same Lord Freud whose book describing his lucrative career in the city has been described as "morally ambiguous" and who was criticised in The Guardian for his "withered meanness" in attempting to link the rise in food banks to greed rather than poverty? Hmm...

Thursday, January 23, 2014

Thursday Review: Not fit for purpose


It was pleasing to see that the Ministry of Justice’s proposals to increase court fees have been condemned as "not fit for purpose" by an internal government review. I'm not honestly sure as to the implications of this, and whether it is likely to lead to any back-tracking by Mr Grayling and his minions. However, even if does not, it certainly gives ammunition to his opponents, as mentioned in this article in The Guardian.

I have probably spent too much time this week reading the Daily Mail, but a story today caught my eye. It is bad enough being harassed online by your own former clients when they are unhappy with your services (as happened to the victims of a certain former website), but when fathers' rights activist Tim Line was unhappy about losing contact with his children he decided to harass his ex-wife's solicitor. Needless to say, the court took a pretty dim view of this, and Mr Line was the recipient of a four week suspended sentence, a restraining order and a £480 costs order.

I will finish with an exchange that occurred earlier this week on Twitter between two family lawyers of whom you may have heard previously. It began with a reference to Sir Paul Coleridge's Marriage Foundation's recommendation to Iain Duncan Smith that the state should encourage cohabitants to marry, a story I mentioned here in my Tuesday Review. We then got this excellent suggestion:
To which came this equally excellent reply:
Quite.

Enjoy the rest of your Thursday.

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